It’s Wednesday which gives you two days to practice these techniques before the weekend arrives. Weekends are mostly for flirting so you will be in time to use them on a party night with your girls. If there is a guy in your life that you can’t stop thinking about, it’s time to take a step. Don’t be afraid, just go for it: with these flirting tips you won’t look like a fool.
1 | Get Caught Looking
The one thing we try to avoid most of the time, is now the thing to do on purpose. When you see a guy you like just make it a point to look his way a couple of times, till he catches you in the act. If he does, give him an ever-so-sly smile, look at hem for a couple more seconds and look away. This lets him know that you’re interested, without actually admitting it. Always make sure you don’t get caught looking at him too often no matter how pretty he is That’s plain creepy, and one of the most important flirting rules is to avoid being creepy at all costs (damn it!).
2 | Be Playful
If you have worked up the guts to go talk to him, just remember to keep it playful. Flirting has to be fun! Smile in a spontaneous way. Be genuine, make jokes and be open. Teasing him playfully is also a good way to get him comfortable. But there’s only so many times a guy wants to hear about his “rosy red lips.” If it’s not the first time you’re talking to him, just bring up something funny that happened to you or suggest to do something crazy together.
3 | Mysterious
Don’t give away to much of your self, tease him by making jokes. Give him signs that you like him, without actually saying it. Guys love a mysterious girl and because they aren’t really sure whether you like them, you’ll stay on their mind because they keep wondering.
4 | Physical Contact
We know you just want to jump at him and devour him, but resist the urge. The first few times you talk to him, make sure you stand close enough to create a sense of intimacy, yet not so close that he can smell your breath. Think about how close you’d want a stranger to stand if it was the first time he was speaking to you. That should give you a clearer image in your head. After you start to get comfortable with each other, subtle physical contact is good. Just grab his arm while you guys are laughing really hard, or give him a little playful push when he’s making fun of you.
5 | Laugh
When you like somebody everything they say is super funny so just show it! Show that he makes you smile, laugh at his jokes cause it’s keeps the conversation fun and makes him think of you as a fun person. Never get into girls drama or negative subjects, just show that you’re a cool person to be around.
6 | Stop While It’s Still Fun
This is the hardest part and the most important one: Always remember to leave at a high point. If you feel like you’re running out of things to say or that the conversation is slacking just a little bit, it’s time to say goodbye. We understand it’s the last thing you want to do, but have faith; this way he’ll look forward to your next meeting. Let the goodbye be confident, flirty and short yet not hasty. Leave him wanting more of you!